Showing posts with label Pre-K at Home. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pre-K at Home. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 3, 2016

Eva Goes to Preschool

Here is to the most random back to school photo you will get this year....Eva started preschool! Yep on February 3rd..because that's how we do things over here. Ha, so we had thought about starting her in preschool in January and I looked into it back in December, but we just weren't sure. Then throughout January things unfolded and we decided that this would be a great time for her to start preschool. Learning wise, she is doing great and just started building words and reading a few words. What we most wanted out of preschool was more playtime with kids and for us to get healthy time apart from each other, because it is possible we sometimes need that :) This is her first time to go away from home to school and we have been so excited since we signed her up. She already had a tiny Sofia lunch box and cute bag to carry, so we got her a matching Sofia thermos cup and a new "back to school" outfit! Ah! This is where my Mama love shines! I was super enthusiastic for her to start this new journey! I packed her snack for the day in her lunch box yesterday, complete with a Frozen graham crackers that are only for school days, and I even ironed her outfit :) Y'all. I have maybe ironed kid clothes 3 times ever, and I for sure won't do it again, but that's how excited I was for her. She did mention once yesterday, "I'm a tiny bit scared," but I think she was mostly good since it was the same place we did VBS last summer and she remembers having a great time there.
At her cubby! It even has her name on it!

We counted down the days on our calendar and this morning she came bouncing into her room saying, "Mama, mama! I get to start preschool today!" We had a good breakfast and then made it to school a bit early to take a photo. I am so happy because one of her good friends, Emily, is in her class, along with another friend, Anthony, that we used to do gymnastics with so she already knew some kids. We prayed for her on our way to school. We walked her in altogether. I was soooo happy when the teacher said, "The first thing we always do is wash our hands!" Yes! One of my biggest hangups on preschool was that she might get sick more. Yes, I know that kids need good exposure to germs and that they eventually get sick now or later. But still. I hate germs. So I was very glad to see that the teacher encouraged good hand washing.

Finally it was time to say goodbye. Just a quick hug and kiss and she was off to play at centers! No tears from anybody. I did have one emotional moment, but it was more a feeling of pride as we sent her off than sadness. All morning long I would look at the clock and think about what she was doing at that time...I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see her. My prayer for her is that she would love learning, be kind and generous, be a leader, and make lots of friends.

I arrived to pick her up a few minutes early and got to sit in the warm car and watch her play and run around on the play ground. She was in such a good mood! We got her things and walked out with her friend. I didn't want to bombard her with "How was your day???? Tell me everything!!!" so I played it cool and waited until she started to chatter which didn't take long. She said her favorite part of the day was chapel and she told me the story of Jesus telling the disciples, "Let the children come to me." She talked about the letter Q, and doing crab walks at PE, and playing dress up. She really likes her teacher and told me that snack time is at 10AM, just like at home. She told me that they made Valentine's Day cards for children who are in the hospital, but that she doesn't have to go to the hospital because another grown up will take them ;) I loved seeing her so filled with joy.

We will still do home school on Mondays and Tuesdays, working mostly on math, literacy, and science. Then she will go to preschool on Wednesday where she gets play centers, Bible, PE, some literacy and math, art, and recess. We also have our Moms Connect group on Thursdays where she is in a class and gets to play, do crafts, and have Bible time. I'm also so happy to get special time with Jensen. I love one on one time with my precious baby...who is turning ONE in two days...but that's another blog post.

I will wrap up this sappy mom post with a photo of another first Eva enjoyed 10 days ago that I never blogged about....
Her first hair cut! I had never even trimmed those baby blonde locks. How did this baby girl grow up so fast?

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Pursing Passions

A few months ago I was meeting with my counselor and she was talking to me about figuring out what I'm passionate about. At first I was just like, "Umm, I mean, I guess I'm a mom so I'm passionate about mothering?" I wasn't sure how to respond. It's like when someone (usually not a fellow Stay at Home Mom) asks me what my hobbies are. I go blank. Does washing massive amounts of dishes count as a hobby? Surely not. Ugh. It can make you feel lame.

So I've been praying for God to show me more about what I am passionate about. What stirs my heart? What are areas where, even if I'm not the greatest, I find joy in sharing and talking about with others? In some crazy way, I feel like this "list" that I've come up with actually captures so much of me. Putting it in a list seems a bit silly, because it's not like you just have separate, ranked areas of your heart. But for blogging purposes, this is what I've got.

1. Family. I am intensely focused on the idea behind raising a family that spends time together and loves each other. Yes we fight and drive each other crazy. But one of my desires is to create such a strong bond between Ryan and I and our children. This also extends to our other family. I want my children to grow up really knowing their grandparents. Lucky for us, we have some awesome parents who love our kids like nobody else.

2. Jesus. Okay, before you write this one off as a typical pastor's wife answer, let me share more. I am passionate about a Savior who offers redemption. I am in love with God sending this hope into my dark days. I want my children to know him. I want my friends to know him. I want to encourage my friends that do know him by reminding them to keep seeking him even on the hard days. I want to share Jesus with more and more people. Nothing can change generations of a family more than a heart in love with Jesus.

3. Learning. I almost wrote this one out as home school. Some days I love doing school with Eva, some days I'm kinda ready for her to go somewhere. I don't know. But I am passionate that she gets the opportunity to learn. I enjoy creating lessons. My heart goes pitter patter as I find lessons on Pinterst and print them out and cut things and put little pieces in ziplock bags all in the name of learning.  I enjoy teaching. Usually. Watching her put letter sounds together to figure out words last week was AMAZING.

4. Health. I am super interested in the inter-connectivity of the body. I don't understand the science behind everything, but I am a believer in holistic health. Along with this, I am passionate about nutrition. I've been gluten free for over 3 months now. I almost caved when I saw the latest Olive Garden commercial, but my passion for putting the best in my body to be the healthiest I can be for me family won out. I want to raise kids who are knowledgeable about the foods that fuel their body and not fill them with junk because it's easier. I kinda wish I could go buy a farm and grow all my own fruits and vegetables. Maybe one day. I also think the evolution of food is both fascinating and terrifying. There is so much fake food going into our bodies...ok, stepping off my soap box for now.

5. Finances. Our small group has been going through a Dave Ramsey curriculum and I am passionate about learning to be wise with money. Ryan and I did a similar study early on in our marriage and some of the baby steps we took early on have allowed me to stay home, even though we live off a comparatively small salary (as in compared to the area we live in, not compared to the global economy). I feel empowered when I find ways to stretch dollars and save. I would love to do financial counseling for younger couples or college students...not how to get rich but how to live wisely off what you have.

6. Mom Life. I love the movement for moms to connect to other moms. Mom friendships look different than other relationships. You find yourself chasing children in the middle of conversation, or chatting to your friend on the phone while realizing your are both nursing babies at the same time. I love opportunities to be transparent and share real life with other moms. Almost three years ago I read THIS BLOG POST by another blogging mama where she shared her real, difficult, experience of deciding to take medication to help with post partum anxiety. Even though her story was slightly different from mine, her writing still echoed in my mind when I was deciding whether or not I wanted to try antidepressants after having Jensen. Her open, honest writing helped me make an important decision years later that greatly benefited me and my children. How awesome is that? Which brings me to my last passion...

7. Sharing my voice. Whether through writing or speaking, I feel really called to use my life and my stories to encourage others and to testify of Jesus. Right now that means blogging and sharing when I'm with other moms. In the future...who knows? Sometimes it is a bit scary, but it is also freeing.

These days I am doing everything I can to shift all my focus into these areas. I want to live purposefully for God, and that comes through living out the passions He has laid on my heart.

Monday, January 4, 2016

Monday Musings {children.homeschool.life}

Today we started back to our regular life routine. Homeschooling. Ryan working. Housework. As I've gone through this morning I keep feeling like we just can't quite click into a rhythm or routine or whatever that works just right for our family. I love planning out our school and our days, but so often my well intended thoughts turn into a day that feels like we are just tumbling down a hill instead of making slow steady strides up the mountain. Do you know that feeling?

Here's my honest thoughts. I love the idea of homeschooling. I want to be the mom that gets to teach her children and create in them a love for learning and a love for Jesus. I want to be the one teaching Eva how to read and crafting little projects with her. I want to see her face light up with discovery. I really, truly want all of that. Eva's God-given personality of half Tigger, half Eeyore, mixed with Jensen's stage of getting into everything, make doing school hard. In my mind I would like each day to look like this: breakfast, playtime, school time with Eva while Jensen naps, playtime, lunch time, maybe a bit more learning, afternoon rest time, play time, dinner time, family time. That seems simple enough. I believe little kids need tons of time to play so I want to balance it well with more directed learning time. Also when Eva is working on school stuff she usually needs me to be with her. So much of her activities are interactive so it's not like I can expect her to work on much independently at this point. We are doing science experiments, or playing games with numbers, or reading stories, or talking about letter sounds. It's all great, but it takes a lot of attention on my part. I know other moms have done this, and have done this with lots of more children running about, so why can't I figure this out?

I do put off big chores during our school days, but there are always little things that need to be done. I have to change diapers, or wash dishes. Today I felt bad because after our school time Eva really wanted me to play dollhouse with her, but I wanted to cook a batch of soup for lunch and I knew that needed to be done prior to actual lunch time. I told her she could go play or she could help, so she chose to mostly just sit on the counter and watch me. I know that isn't bad, because she was still enjoying being with me, but it makes me feel like I can't take any time for things like soup making without it coming across like I don't want to play with her.  Plus then Jensen is either crawling around like a wild banshee or contained to the pack and play. Today he was ready for a snack so it worked out a little better but that was just luck.

Also some times during the day, I'm all played-out. I love my kids, but making dolls pretend to be real life babies who need to be changed, fed, put to sleep, and walked is only exciting for so long. The firetrucks can put out pretend fires. The blocks can be made into a house, or a tower. We play kitchen and I eat pretend food. All fun things...until your grown up mind is done with it. I really want to be able to be home with my kids, to play with them some, and to let them play without me for some time for me to take care of other things. This seems realistic right?

Right now Jensen still takes two naps a day, so it feels like most of our day revolves around feeding him, playing, nursing, and getting him ready for his next nap. I know it won't be like this forever. It just makes it hard to even find time to get out of the house without it being a marathon to get out the door only to need to return an hour later. 

We've considered putting Eva in preschool, but really any good program around us is too expensive for us right now. I would love for her {and Jensen...} to get to go play with other kids like 2 mornings a week from 9-12pm, but even that costs a lot of  money when you live off of one income. 

I've prayed a lot about all of these things and I feel like probably the best thing is to keep it all in perspective. We are just in a season with a busy kid and a curious {almost} toddler. In a six months they will each be in a new stages and we will have to find the balance all over again. Really I have always dreamed about the stage in life when I could be home with two little kids, watching them learn and become friends. I really don't think I would want a job outside of the home....but some days I just wish I felt better at balancing everything. Maybe there isn't a perfect rhythm. Maybe you just do the best you can do with each day, love your kids a ton, and thank God for the moments in the day when you're all headed up the hill together. I realize that every day can't be Maria VonTrapp marching through the hills of Austria with her seven coordinated children laughing and singing behind her...but I sure would enjoy more moments like that.

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Preschool at home

Right now we are in our 5th week of doing preschool at home, so I thought I would share a bit of our experience. With my background in education, I believe that it is so important for little kids to start learning early. Their tiny minds are made to be like sponges, soaking up information and making connections all the time. I get asked fairly frequently when Eva will "start school," meaning when she will actually go to school. Honestly, I'm not sure. For now I want her at home with me and I feel like I can do a good job of teaching her. Also preschool programs aren't free so that makes a big difference for us. I know there are tons of fabulous programs in our area and sometimes I'm torn because I know she would love the social side of "going to school." Right now our plan is for me to home school her for most of preschool, possibly send her to pre-k a couple of days a week the year before kindergarten (she still has 3 more years) and then have her go to public school for kindergarten. But, who knows? I really want to just take things year by year, considering how she is doing, what she needs, and what our family life looks like.
For this year I looked at a few curriculums and decided to go with ABC Jesus Loves Me. I like this curriculum because it includes Bible stories, music, art, lots of literacy activities, number concepts, and ideas for gross and fine motor skills. You can find everything on their website for free, so if you're looking to sample some ideas I would really recommend it. I chose to order the printed version because last year I always took time to print off things and put them in a binder anyway. Plus the printed version includes a layout for what to do each day and I like that to help me organize our days. You do not need a curriculum to work with your child at home, especially now that there are so many great ideas on the internet, but it really helps me to focus on specific skills and have an idea of what to do each week.
The content doesn't have tons of science, so I plan on using pinterest to find activities that would be interesting for Eva. She also is really into helping me in the kitchen, so I am hoping to cook with her at least once a week. Cooking together is good for teaching listening, following directions, measuring, and observation - plus it ends with a yummy snack!
We do school for a couple of hours a day (spread out into a couple of chunks) 2 or 3 days a week depending on what our schedule looks like. The curriculum we're using has built in weeks for review, which is nice because you can go back and reinforce concepts. We start our school days by doing "calendar time" together on our refrigerator. I decided to do this since it is what most schools do, and it helps her get into "school mode" I also have a pocket chart on our refrigerator where I put cards that list each of our activities for the day like Bible, letters, numbers, art, etc. Eva really likes to see what we are going to be doing and will go back during the day and say, "Let me look at my schedule, Mama," to see what we still have left to do. She cracks me up.
If you're thinking about doing preschool at home with your child, here are my thoughts on what is most important. Play time. Hello, she is three years old. Her days should be full of play. Children learn so much through play time! Reading. Fill those little minds up with books. On school days I try to spend at least 30 minutes reading (spread out through the day) but even on days that we are just living life, we read a lot. Learning to be helpful. Not only do I want her to be educated, I want her to have age appropriate life skills. Lucky for me, Eva will shadow me all day long and ask to help me. So I put her to work! She is helpful in the kitchen and probably has more laundry skills than some college freshman. She's learning how to put things away and keep a house clean. When the baby comes in February I fully plan on using Eva to help me out, I might as well start training her now!
Which leads me to the one thing I'm most nervous about...doing home school with a newborn in the house. It is much easier now when I can focus on Eva and the house. My mind explodes a little bit when I think about adding caring for a baby into our schedule. But I know that mamas have managed multiple children for a long, long time. I remind myself that I don't have to be able to fully plan and picture how things will work. We will get there when we get there. Eva will be learning. Eva will be loved. Life will change but that will be okay.
And what am I most excited about for this year? To see Eva learning! Can you tell where she was trying to write the letters in her name???? The long lines with lines across are her "E's", the up and down diagonal lines are her "v's" and the circles with the line next to it are her "a's". I thought that was so awesome for a kid that just turned 3! Already she has been learning more letter sounds and her number recognition and counting have improved so much. The other day we were drawing letters in shaving cream and she was wanting to draw lots of letters and even a few numbers! Her ability to cut with scissors has improved so much over the past month and she holds her pencils and crayons with a more standard grip. It's so cool! Most importantly, I love seeing that Eva LOVES to learn! I want her to see working on school together as something she "gets to do" instead of "has to do." Ooh, I am so excited for this year!

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

One day he is coming...

For the past month I felt like I have had nothing to blog about or no time in which to blog....this week I suddenly feel like I have TONS to blog about, although still not tons of time to blog. So here is another quick blog about what the Lord has laid on my heart these past few days.

Sunday night at youth Ryan taught about Easter. He did it from the stand point of, "So, what?" Why is Easter important? Why do we care that the story teaches us that Christ is risen? Why does that even matter?

It matters because it's TRUTH. That Jesus really is alive. As I was teaching about this with my group of small girls, I just felt so encouraged and excited about this truth. Jesus didn't just die and then have his soul go on to Heaven. Jesus overcame DEATH, ROSE to life again, and is ALIVE now. Wow. I have been praying that our students would be excited about this amazing truth that shows that Jesus is who he says he was, that teaches us that God's power and ability is infinitely greater than we can imagine, and that assures us that the peace Jesus offers us is real.

Then I started to think about how I want to teach Eva about Easter. I want my sweet girl to LOVE Easter as much as Christmas! Easter really is every bit if not more important than Christmas because we are celebrating that not only was our Savior born, but he is still ALIVE and with us!  So I've been busily planning this afternoon ways that I can make Easter meaningful, understandable, and exciting to a two year old. Yes, we will do the silly bunny and egg crafts because that's fun and she is two and loves all things art. I will dress her up in a sweet Easter dress and enjoy taking pictures of her hunting for eggs (which we will probably do at least 3 times). But I want to do more than that. I promise, she can already tell you that Easter is about chocolate bunnies and finding eggs. That is permanently in her brain. Now I want the part about God loving her SO MUCH that he would send his son to die so that she can know him FOREVER to be in her HEART.

What are my first steps? Well, I made the chalkboard above based on the song Glorious Day by Casting Crowns....but that's really more for me. For me to see it every time I walk our stairs. For me to remember that my love for Jesus matters to her. Then I order The Easter Story today from Amazon. She already has tons of books about finding eggs or with pictures of cute little animals. I wanted another special Easter book just about Jesus. Yes, we read it in her little Bible, but it's only a couple of pages and this will be something special that we can set out just at Easter. My other ideas are all on my Easter Pinterest Board.....I am really looking forward to doing the shortened, toddler version of Resurrection Eggs. In December I made up at "25 Days of Christmas" calendar with something to do each day, and I thought briefly about doing something like the "20 Days of Easter" but right now I am in a season of life where I probably don't need to try to do quite that much. I want this to be meaningful but also simple. Maybe just a few things each week would be better.

I encourage everyone who reads this to really ask God to show you new truths this Easter. Pray to be excited. Pray to be encouraged. Happy Easter!

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Keeping Learning FUN


In the fall I started working with Eva on a few early learning concepts - things like recognizing letters, counting, fine motor skills, etc. Every time I wanted to work on a "letter of the week" with her though she would run off or loose interest very quickly. She clearly had some kind of reluctance to those ABC's. It didn't matter if my idea sounded good on paper or was really cute on Pinterest, she wasn't up for it. So I backed off for a while and didn't worry about it. I believe that kids learn so much through play time and just being a kid and doing kid experiences. I really wasn't concerned. I figured she would come around to those ABC's eventually. I'm writing this post to share some of the FUN new ideas that I've come up with (some on my own, some from Pinterest) to share with other mamas. Lots of these will work with all pre-k age levels because you could change up what your child is doing. I am also not making an attempt to compare Eva to any other kid. Maybe your 2 year old can already read - great! Maybe they don't know letters yet - no worries, Eva didn't know any letters until about a month ago. All kids learn at their own pace and will likely pick up on everything they need to know just by living life around parents who love them. Our days are not just spent doing learning activities all the time. Some days we do lots of these, some days we do none. She will hopefully be learning the rest of her life, so I feel like it is equally important for her to have days where we just go to the park or the store or watch movies or build a cave out of blankets. Having said all that, here are some FUN\ ways we've been learning :)

I read an idea about starting with letters that are meaningful. I decided to start looking at letters again by making our own ABC book. We slowly created some letters, usually 1 or 2 every day or so. I started with the "E" for her name and then did "D" for Daddy and "M" for Mama. I printed off small pictures and we glued them on a hand drawn letter (not the fanciest but a 2 year old doesn't mind). After that I let her tell me family members that she wanted in the book. If their name started with a letter we already had, we added their picture. If it was a new letter I drew that new letter and we added  it to our book. She LOVES this! She asks to read her book all the time. We now have 12 letters and she can tell you who's name starts with each letter. I used supplies we already had so this FUN activity cost us nothing and got her interested in letters and making that connection that letters mean something. I did put each page in a page protector because I didn't want this to turn into a game of ripping the pictures off the letters (although that is definitely a fun task for any two year old).
We also already had a full set of alphabet cookie cutters. We've used them for play dough but then she mostly wants to rip them apart instead of look at them (putting things together and then taking them apart is a very appropriate skill and teaches them about how stuff works). This past week we used the cookie cutters to dip in colored paint and make art. I set out only the 12 letters she is already familiar with so that she can really focus on learning those. 
We also have had foam letters for the bath tub since before she was born. As a baby she chewed on them. As a bigger baby she just played with them in the bath water. I got the idea to show her how the letters in the book can match her foam letters. Then I showed her how I could write the letters on cards (cut up paper). She can now match up the letters! We call this our letter game. And every time she gets 3 matches I tell her that she "wins!" I do silly "good job" things as she as playing her game like cheering in a whisper voice. 
 Foam bath tub letters + letters written on cut up pieces of paper = big learning FUN!
For Christmas Aunt Amanda gave Eva a puzzle of linking up letters. At first her favorite thing was to punch out each little rubber letter and make a huge mess. There is that taking-apart-putting together skill again :)  Now we play another "game" where she looks for the letters that she knows. She can name B, E, J, A, D, and M (oops! upside down) and tell someone who's name starts with that letter. For N (sideways!), K, H, C, P, and G she can recognize it enough to tell me who's name starts with that letter. I just love that she is learning and having so much FUN with all the different ways to see and make letters! She's even gotten to where she can recognize letters around the house, like on wall hangings, and in books. {Insert rejoicing from my former teacher heart!!!}
 When we were taking these pictures I was trying to get her to look at me. Ryan told her, "Put your eyes on Mama," and she clearly thought he meant to literally put her eyes on me. Hehehe....
The other skill we are working on right now is counting to 10. Back before Christmas she could usually count from 1-10 just aloud (like not counting objects) but then we stopped for a few weeks and she forgot a lot. So we've been working on counting aloud and counting objects. Having been a teacher I would say that it's really important to work on both, although again, not something to stress out about at age 2. So we make counting FUN! Eva loves goldfish crackers and I found this cute fish bowl counting sheet so she can put the fish in the bowl with each number and then eat them. Yum!
Nana and Papa gave Eva a huge pack of foam sheets and foam stickers from Christmas that she uses to make art. I figured why not turn her art into learning?! We sorted a few into piles that were the same and then she helped make the picture cards above. I did go back when she was done and slightly adjust the placement of each sticker so that it would look like a more standard grouping. She really enjoys doing this counting activity and I think it has a lot to due with the fact that she made the cards herself.
When we play this game we line up all the number cards that have 1-5 written on them and say the numbers in order. Then we flip all the picture cards over and mix them up. She picks one to turn over, counts the pictures, and then matches the color of the card to the number. This way she is counting and learning to recognize the written number. One day we might make bigger numbers but for now going up to 5 is great.
Finally here is a FUN cold day, indoor activity. It's not counting or letters but we did enjoy doing it. I used to be a big scrapbooker and have tons of old scrapbook paper. I cut up a few different pieces and separated them in a muffin pan. She got to pick out the pieces and practice putting one drop of glue at a time on them. That girl can do the teensy-tiniest drop of glue I've ever seen. 
Look at all those organized squares of paper! (She wouldn't have cared if I had just dumped them all on the table but I liked it better this way. Plus she could see her options better this way. Clearly.)
She glued them on a bigger piece of paper. I let her have all the say-so in picking out which squares and where she wanted to glue them because art should be about creating. We also used these squares to make cute Valentine's Day cards for her grandparents.... I will post that soon when they've all received them in the mail :) 
In case you were getting the interpretation that we live some sort of dream life where Eva does everything I plan out for her I wanted to share this picture. This picture is the image of an activity from Pinterest. The child in this picture is carefully placing the fuzzy poms on the corresponding rainbow arch, carefully one at a time, in perfect precision. I printed this off and got out the fuzzy poms. I showed Eva what to do. She poured the poms all over the floor and then had a great time tossing them all around in the air. Just some proof that I have a completely normal toddler and that not all activities go as planned. Although pouring out a whole pan full of colored poms can be FUN too :)